The most consequential and painful decision we would have to make is whether to stay or leave. Every day, thousands of people go about their daily activities with the thought in their mind, their significant other has no clue about the weight they are carrying around.
We all want to be truly happy in love that we spend time always analyzing whether our love life is normal about our sexual and psychological issues or it is toxic and draining which should compel us to get out immediately. Things like our friend’s relationships, the amount of time they have disappointed us, the number of times we had popcorn when watching a movie on Netflix can influence us one way or the other.
Everything around us is leading us in ‘the-not-leaving’ direction. Religion is saying a lot of profound things, our cultural narratives, well, disapproves breakups elaborating that those little things called children will be disturbed by the termination of their parents' relationship. But, these objections have been kicked out of our life many times, we don’t care about what religion says, screw society’s nonsense, and we tell the psychologists to go to hell. The choices we make are all on us. And the only thing that decides whether we stay or leave is how we feel. This might be hard, but our feelings take the wheels.
We ask ourselves so many questions, we think of so many things about our past, previous relationships, how we try every single day to not fight, the lies, cheating, how many times our partners have gone to the movies without us, who takes the children to school, who wipe their asses, how attractive our boss is, and even how our partners react to our failures and winnings. Whatever the case might be we still hold the cards.
If all these deductions, analysis, and filtration have been done and you still have the urge to leave, with the chances of regret weakened at least a touch, with a 100kg heart and a conservative mind… leave.
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