WANT HER AS YOUR GIRLFRIEND? AVOID THIS!

Do you want that gorgeous girl to be your girlfriend?

 

It is so tempting to have the urge of showing her all your best and good qualities in the hope that she would realize what an amazing and great boyfriend you would make.

 

And run into your arms.

 

Brother, this virtually never works.

 

Women don’t choose men who are compatible on paper or the man that makes sense to be with. They actually want someone who erupts powerful emotions in them.

 

Someone who makes them feel alive.

 

So, how would you brighten up her world and make her attracted to you?

 

Frank is a guy who’s is great with words. He has an amazing vocabulary and can put his thoughts into professionally-crafted sentences. Yet he has a problem: Even when he was in a great conversation with a girl, he wasn’t able to get her freaking interested! Why?

 

My advice to Frank to help him overcome his boring eloquence was telling him that the trick to attraction is to add some great body language to the juice to capture the woman. Words are pointless without any body language, this is because body language valuates 80% of our conversations. Man, if you don’t deliver an amazing body language plus a good conversation, sorry you are not going to attract anyone.

 

I know that you’ve probably read millions of articles on a topic like this, but these key tips are what men normally ignore. Let me show you.

 

#7 Breathe

 

This is life there for you. Do it deeply with critical awareness. This energizes you and makes you relaxed. You feel comfortable inside your skin (you wouldn’t sweat too much). Feel the energy within, feel happy because you are an attractive guy (yes, yes, I know I’m sounding like a kung-fu master). Do that and your body language will fall in line.

 

#6 The Walk

 

This a bloody great tip. You want to be cool and calm, so you’ll want to take some time. Hey, straighten your back, walk upright, keep your head up and feel the aura around you. Envision yourself as Dwayne Johnson. Don’t rush, you got this, you are the boss (ladies, I’m sorry but they are…)

 

#5 Erect Posture (wait, what?)

 

Yes! Don’t fold your arms or legs, this is a signal saying that you are insecure. Don’t lean in! Sit back and relax. If you can’t hear what she’s saying move your ear closer to her mouth so she can’t talk into it. And hey, don’t invade her personal space by leaning forward. Check your angles too.

 

#4 Signals

 

Wanna create a personal connection? Pay attention to this.

Make your signals well-defined and clear. Don’t wave your arms like a ninja, this could make her dip, or probably run. Use your gestures to show what you are saying. Speaking from the heart needs power from our gestures. This is vital.

 

#3 The Smile

 

I can see many of you trying to smile right now.

Be conscious of this too. When you smile at everything the woman says or does, you come across as a pitiful little puppy trying to please her (Remember, you are the boss). Confident men don’t smile a lot, this, I took from one of the greatest comedians alive, Kevin Hart. Even when you are being funny, the delivery of the joke matters. Being normal while saying something crazy is golden. Also, if you don’t smile at all, well, you know the rest. (Don’t be a serious punk)

 

#2 Expressions On The Face

 

Most guys always ignore this, geez, this is powerful. Don’t just look at her face, look into her eyes, focus on her, maintain eye contact. Tilt your head a little when she’s talking to you (especially if she’s a woman you are interested in). In the early stages of my life, I decided to learn how to raise my left eyebrow. Every day I’d stand in front of the mirror till I got it. Try your facial expressions first to avoid the scare and worry on the woman’s face.

 

#1 Relax

 

Finally, this is number one because it’s a general rule you should keep in mind. Make regular pauses when you speak. Rushing would kill the vibe and make you seem aimless and insecure. Speed comes in when the need arises but, ideally relax. Flow placidly and feel the vibe.

 

Frank’s relationship is freaking awesome now. These tips can guide you. If you had any value in this content, share your comments below.