THE WRONG HEART

 

At the moment when the sun doesn’t shine, your heart and mind don’t feel the same, everything looked sooo magical, you see nothing else but them when you close your eyes. But your eyes will never see the soul that is searching for someone else, the mind that is constantly processing an escape, the short smiles and forced laughter.

 

You will always be the one who holds the hugs the longest. Your letters will be read, but the depth of your words won’t be understood. Their kiss might linger on your lips, but yours will be immediately forgotten. They will never fully believe you when you explain your feelings.

 

Making excuses will make you feel better for a while. When you are tired of excuses, you realize that there are a lot of responsibilities you’ve got to take care of. Your excuses might be that they are too busy and that’s why you aren’t given much attention.

 

And at the next stage, you start blaming yourself. Wondering if you’ve done something wrong, said something to push them away. You apologize even when it’s their fault. You will be all about them and stop asking them to meet your needs. You will do everything in your tiny power to please them.                                                          

 

Hmm, you will be amazed that all the shit you did for them wouldn’t be enough for them to reciprocate the love and care. You wake up and no texts saying: How are you doing? And “goodnight” at night. They leave without saying goodbye. This is to remind you that they don’t love you like you love them. Probably, they are seeing someone else. Their silence is intentional. They might just want you to get the fuck out of their life. You weren’t enough for them and you never be, even if you bring them the moon.

 

Calm down Amigo, don’t blame them for not loving you. Maybe their love for you wasn’t enough either. You will never be enough for a person who doesn’t love you.

 

Love isn’t rocket science, you will know when someone loves you.

 

They don’t leave you alone. They check on you like they check the time on their wristwatch. They care and support your efforts. They cherish and know that losing you would be a great mistake, so even when things go wrong, they fight to make things better.

 

Don’t be sad when your heart is broken. Remind yourself of all the wonderful people around you. Gather all the strength and courage you need to exterminate the bad feeling. Occupy yourself with happy people who resonate with you.

 

Being alone sucks, but being with someone who doesn’t love you is a fucking nightmare!

 

Regretting the relationship is a waste of valuable time and it will imprison you in the cage of the past, allowing the bitter thoughts to hunt you. You did your best and now it’s your turn to be HAPPY.

 

Hey, with lots of love for yourself you should know that No relationship is a magic story and the right person does not exist. Great relationships are basically made of forgiveness, commitment, kindness, and compassion. And they are created by people who will tear down the heavens to make life enjoyable for them. Stay strong and the person who will stay when it gets HARD will come by.

 

Much love,

 

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