MOST ASKED RELATIONSHIP QUESTIONS

MOST ASKED RELATIONSHIP QUESTIONS

 

The most complicated business in the world is a relationship. Straight from arguing with your boyfriend (without starting a fire) to those must-have, sticky sex talks, there are a lot of conversations to locate when it comes to love.

 

I personally have been asked so many questions and thankfully most are eye-opening and even expected. Some questions are very strange. I want to share my responses to some of the questions on my list in this post today. Let’s goooooo….!

 

*8. How can you save a dying relationship?

 

Okay, here is the thing about relationships. It takes 2 people. The first step to save the crashing plane is to understand that you cannot control the other person and that the only person you can control is yourself. Do the best you can and hope that the other person falls inline instead of always outlining what they could do better all the time. And hey, your partner isn’t a video game character that you could edit to suit your taste. Look at where you can improve, not where the other person can. And if you are a Christian like me PRAY for them.

 

*7. How do you break out of a toxic relationship?

 

(laughing…) Hardest decision ever. Do you agree? The best result comes from the people who just get up and leave. This might sound a little crazy but that’s the only option. Do it now, not tomorrow, not after he celebrates his birthday, not when she has graduated from college, do it TODAY. This wouldn’t be easy but I bet you’re gonna buy me a drink when you are done.

 

*6. How to know when your relationship is over or not.

 

Seriously, are you asking this question? If you are then I’m sorry your relationship has already ended or it’s just a few days late. But don’t worry, a relationship being over doesn’t mean your life is over. God has a better plan for you. You will one day smile and say “I love you” Can I hear an amen?

 

*5. How do you get over a breakup?

 

Most people cry after this unfortunate event. Are you in this same situation, and you don’t know how to break out? Relax, situations like this needs time to heal. Time here is a tool to help you recover. I hear people say: “I don’t think I can ever recover from this”. And this brings me to my second tool which is: redirecting all your attention to something more interesting than your low life partner who treats you like shit and for some reason you’re still rooted to them. Learn a new skill, read self-development books, and above all enjoy your new-found freedom.

 

*4. What is an open relationship?

 

Really guys? Really?

This is nothing but a childish self-destructive lifestyle, which is like a supermarket trolley (it goes nowhere). You will regret this in the long run, trust me.

 

*3. How do you build trust in a relationship?

 

Trust is basically believing in the honesty, reliability, or strength of someone. And this means letting go of control. This is a vital part of a relationship. With trust, you can allow your vulnerabilities to be visible and believe that the other person has got your back. Trust building starts with letting go of your control knowing that you are in safe hands.

 

*2. Should we have sex on our first date?

 

Having sex on the first date is up to you, period. The outlook of sex on a first date often triggers a booby trap of over-thinking and awkward opinions. Well, having sex on the first date doesn’t manifest your right to an undivided relationship and there should be no sense of disgrace or anything like that. Deciding whether to have sex on the first day or not depends on the situation, if both parties are on the same page and their feelings are truthfully communicated.  

 

*1. Can a long-distance relationship work?

 

The most difficult kind of relationship happens to be this one. Don’t get me wrong but, some of the strongest and healthiest relationships are products of long-distance relationships. This is because you learn how to trust and communicate. The reason why thousands of long-distance relationships die or don’t start at all is that these two things are missing. (Be happy if yours doesn’t work out, you just saved yourself a whole complete season of nightmares) Bottom line: strong communication and peak level trust are the keys to long-distance relationships.

 

 Do you have any other answers? Share your comments below!